For your first query, members shouldn't discipline other members themselves for a number of reason:sputnick wrote: Don't understand exactly why it is that that is not acceptable, but if you insist.
As an off topic question, Where have you been Crowley, this is the first post of yours I have seen in quite some time
1: You are both on the same level of hierarchy. Post count and rank mean little and rarely do I ever see a senior and well respected member disciplining a member for kicking up a topic.
2: The member may not take it very well, being disciplined by someone who has no authority over them. And most likely being disciplined in a rude manner.
3: We have moderators for a reason. Best for a Mod to do their job then some random member on the forum. If we keep it to Mods and only Mods, it is more official and the member can talk with the moderator about it in private.
And this doesn't only apply to members who kick up topics, if any member breaks any rule, PM a moderator. Even if someone double posts and you just simply remind them, as long as it is in a polite and reminding way and you still PM a mod, it doesn't bother me too much. Because as soon as a Mod deals with it, it is official. The Mod then can say they've warned that member in the past etc, if the member happens to go round double posting some more without care for the rules.
I've been here the whole time by the way. I just probably don't post as much as I used to but I definitely visit the site at least once a day.